Thursday, September 13, 2007
12 September 2007 - dinner
Well, yeah... Still here... to blog about yesterday...
Was on Off yesterday... So, slept like the dead on 11 Sept...And only saw Jason's sms yesterday morning... like... 0830? lol~
Anyway, in the end, ended up accompanying my mom and nephew to visit my grandparents.
Then came home to relax and went out at 6+pm to meet the gang... (Thought only got Jason and twinee...)
Anyway, Jason ended up late, so, me and twinee were wandering about in AMK...
Well, the conclusion is; we had a big group gathering instead.... lol~~~~
So, anyway, we had a serious attack of deserts again and ended up at our usual hunting place. *secret* *heehehehe*
Had this for desert:
Also, we had an intense discussion on a friend of ours.
*NOTE:* FOLLOWING CONTENT IS BASED ON PERSONAL OPINION ONLY. READ AT OWN RISK. PLEASE END HERE AND GET OUT IF YOU CAN"T TAKE PERSONAL OPINIONS. THANK YOU.
Basically, this friend, A, is considering suicide after a failed relationship with another friend of mine and with her family.
So, to cut the long story short, she tells her friends, us, that she is thinking of suicide everytime she sees us on msn.
Also, as she couldn't and still can't get over the guy, she kept and keeps finding ways to get information on what the guy is doing, sending him smses (whereby any SANE ex-other half will NEVER reply)
It's not that I am bad and wish to badmouth A. But her ways of dealing with this is plain..... childish...
All of us have previously given her advice, and such... But it seems that she refuses to even consider the advice. All she does, even now, is to keep bemoaning to us on her wanting to die, wanting to quit school, etc.
It's like, she just wants to rant and rave at us, and then, run to hide in the little corner she has created for herself when we give her advice.
It makes me wonder sometimes is she trying to do the following:
1) Gain sympathy (turning us all againest her in the process)
2) Just making us be like her doll (to listen to her nia)
3) Trying to make us hate her
4) Treating death lightly
The point is;
1) if she doesn't even want to continue studying, then just get the hell over and done with and just quit school.
To me, if you don't want to study, then just don't even register in the first place. Please don't waste your parent's money and God's gift to you.
Why keep moaning and groaning over God's gift to you when you have the chance to study? If you don't want to even study, you shouldn't have even registered for the place in the 1st place.
And if you are already in there, shouldn't you even make an effort to TRY?! When is life GOOD to anyone in the first place? If life is GOOD, there will NOT be policemen in the first place.
2) Treating life lightly
Well, I have serious dislike for people who treats death lightly. Especially people who keep telling others he/she wants to die and such, turns away from advice, refuses to seek help, wallow in misery and somewhere down the road, everyone is moving on except for the fella who is still obviously alive.
Please. Just listen to us and seek help.
You want a listening ear, you got one. You have had serveral in fact. But your way of TUNING OFF the advice and keep telling us that you wanna die is turning us/ turned us off.
We are not your punching bag for you to rant and then run when we offer you advice.
It's not that we don't want to help you. But the way you treat us all like a transparent piece of glass justs make us avoid you.
I am sorry. I am not that tolerant. Neither am I that brave.
To tell the truth, I am avoiding you.
Well, I am not Superman.
I can't forever be your listening ear and when I offer you advice, you just treat me like a freak and run off to your little corner, wallow in misery and find a next listening ear.
The conclusion is, if you just want to rant and rave at someone, please don't even BOTHER to come to me especially when you know you are NOT going to accept ANY advice.
You are just scaring EVERYONE away with your methods...
Was on Off yesterday... So, slept like the dead on 11 Sept...And only saw Jason's sms yesterday morning... like... 0830? lol~
Anyway, in the end, ended up accompanying my mom and nephew to visit my grandparents.
Then came home to relax and went out at 6+pm to meet the gang... (Thought only got Jason and twinee...)
Anyway, Jason ended up late, so, me and twinee were wandering about in AMK...
Well, the conclusion is; we had a big group gathering instead.... lol~~~~
So, anyway, we had a serious attack of deserts again and ended up at our usual hunting place. *secret* *heehehehe*
Had this for desert:
Also, we had an intense discussion on a friend of ours.
*NOTE:* FOLLOWING CONTENT IS BASED ON PERSONAL OPINION ONLY. READ AT OWN RISK. PLEASE END HERE AND GET OUT IF YOU CAN"T TAKE PERSONAL OPINIONS. THANK YOU.
Basically, this friend, A, is considering suicide after a failed relationship with another friend of mine and with her family.
So, to cut the long story short, she tells her friends, us, that she is thinking of suicide everytime she sees us on msn.
Also, as she couldn't and still can't get over the guy, she kept and keeps finding ways to get information on what the guy is doing, sending him smses (whereby any SANE ex-other half will NEVER reply)
It's not that I am bad and wish to badmouth A. But her ways of dealing with this is plain..... childish...
All of us have previously given her advice, and such... But it seems that she refuses to even consider the advice. All she does, even now, is to keep bemoaning to us on her wanting to die, wanting to quit school, etc.
It's like, she just wants to rant and rave at us, and then, run to hide in the little corner she has created for herself when we give her advice.
It makes me wonder sometimes is she trying to do the following:
1) Gain sympathy (turning us all againest her in the process)
2) Just making us be like her doll (to listen to her nia)
3) Trying to make us hate her
4) Treating death lightly
The point is;
1) if she doesn't even want to continue studying, then just get the hell over and done with and just quit school.
To me, if you don't want to study, then just don't even register in the first place. Please don't waste your parent's money and God's gift to you.
Why keep moaning and groaning over God's gift to you when you have the chance to study? If you don't want to even study, you shouldn't have even registered for the place in the 1st place.
And if you are already in there, shouldn't you even make an effort to TRY?! When is life GOOD to anyone in the first place? If life is GOOD, there will NOT be policemen in the first place.
2) Treating life lightly
Well, I have serious dislike for people who treats death lightly. Especially people who keep telling others he/she wants to die and such, turns away from advice, refuses to seek help, wallow in misery and somewhere down the road, everyone is moving on except for the fella who is still obviously alive.
Please. Just listen to us and seek help.
You want a listening ear, you got one. You have had serveral in fact. But your way of TUNING OFF the advice and keep telling us that you wanna die is turning us/ turned us off.
We are not your punching bag for you to rant and then run when we offer you advice.
It's not that we don't want to help you. But the way you treat us all like a transparent piece of glass justs make us avoid you.
I am sorry. I am not that tolerant. Neither am I that brave.
To tell the truth, I am avoiding you.
Well, I am not Superman.
I can't forever be your listening ear and when I offer you advice, you just treat me like a freak and run off to your little corner, wallow in misery and find a next listening ear.
The conclusion is, if you just want to rant and rave at someone, please don't even BOTHER to come to me especially when you know you are NOT going to accept ANY advice.
You are just scaring EVERYONE away with your methods...
I left a footprint at 3:00 AM